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刘从健

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I am on the bus every day. And I often see this kind of situation.


Some middle school students often embrace and kiss each other when all the people see them on the bus. they don't feel shy at all.


If they are our children, when we see they do that, what will we think of and what should we do?


Who is wrong for that? The parents? The school? The society? The students themshelves? Or the other things?
 
I just want to know how old these middle school students are. Did you mean middle school students or high school students? If this happens among middle school students, I think it's too early for courtship. If this happens among high school students, it's somewhat reasonable (but not recommended).

I hope this will not happen to me. To deal with these young people with early dating, it's better to start with communicate and educate them early. They might not even know what love is. They might not have the social and interpersonal skills to handle it. They have boyfriends/girlfriends because they saw other people have boyfriends/girlfriends. They kiss each other because they should act in a way like other people should act on relationship. But they don't realize their relationship has nowhere to go and develop. Parents need to help them understand the responsibilities and concerns about premature dating.

I think the parents (50%), the society (40%) and the school (10%) should take the responsibility for it. Since parents are consistently supervision the grown of their children, they need to set rules and boundary for how to behave. The school is responsible for providing guideline and education to help them understand what is right, what is wrong. The society is the environment where the young people grown and influence from. Looking at the today's media which includes TV programs, movies, news paper, magazines and internet, you will understand why these middle school students kiss each other in front of people in the public place. They learned that from what they saw from the media.
 
They are about 13 years old or may be yonger.
蜜蜂, Thanks for your explaining. I think of the same as you.
 
QUOTE(刘从健 @ 2006年09月19日 Tuesday, 11:34 PM)
They are about 13 years old or may be yonger.
蜜蜂, Thanks for your explaining. I think of the same as you.
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That's too young for them!
 
这是世界发展的产物!可能在中国你们看起来接受不了,但在西方一些开放性国家却习以为常.
世界信息的交流让很多外国文化传入我国,但不同的是!小孩看了心动,而大人思想上又不能给予最好的性教育!让孩不知道自己是对是错!
孩子总会想:电视上'网络上'社会上等都有许许多多人可以为什么我不可以!
大人总会想:我们那个时代就边写信都不敢说上一句我爱你,那怕是这样!
 

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